Arwen Sue Youngbull, a beloved mother, sister, and cherished member of her community, passed away on October 15, 2025, in Oklahoma City, at the age of 47. Born on August 11, 1978, in Elk City, Arwen was a proud resident of the area, deeply connected to its spirit and the people who inhabited it.
Arwen pursued a career as a dedicated cashier, holding important roles with the drop team at Lucky Star Casino in Clinton, Oklahoma, and at Elk City Nursing Home. Her warm spirit and friendly demeanor made her a favorite among customers and colleagues alike. Known for her vibrant personality, Arwen enjoyed spending time in nature, taking long walks, and relishing the simplicity of being outdoors. She found joy in the small pleasures of life, whether it was curling up with a good book, watching television, or enjoying the soothing sounds of music.
She attended Elk City School, where she built lasting memories and friendships in her formative years. Arwen's dedication to her family was paramount, and she spent her life nurturing and supporting her children and loved ones.
She is survived by her mother, sons Josiah Youngbull and Kyle Whiteskunk, her daughter, Isabel Gonzales, and mother Ruby Bighorse. Additionally, she is mourned by her sisters, Stacy Castaneda and Tiffany Pesacreta, and her brothers, Cody Youngbull, Tommy Stepetin, and David Stepetin. Arwen also leaves behind her beloved grandmother, Eleanor Whitecrow, along with seven adoring grandchildren who brought much joy into her life.
She was preceded in death by her father, Edmond Wayne Youngbull, her sister Amber Youngbull, her brother Cory Youngbull, and her common-law husband, Jose Luis Salinas Gonzales. Each of these individuals held a special place in Arwen's heart, and their memories will continue to inspire those who knew her.
Family and friends are invited to pay their respects during a viewing on October 23, 2025, from 6:00 PM to all night at Indian Baptist Church, located at 916 W. 7th St., Elk City, Oklahoma. A funeral service will take place the following day, October 24, 2025, at 10:00 AM at the Church of the Nazarene, situated at 816 W. 6th St., Elk City, Oklahoma.
Arwen’s legacy will be one of love and kindness, marked by her commitment to family, her work in the community, and her zest for life. Her presence will be greatly missed by all who were fortunate enough to know her.
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